“Pay for it, Mom. It’s the least you can do when you’re living under our roof.”

My daughter Stephanie said those words loudly enough for the cashier and everyone waiting behind us to hear. We were standing in a crowded supermarket in Savannah with three shopping carts overflowing with prime beef, imported cheeses, expensive wine, snacks, and elaborate desserts for a dinner party her husband Clinton was hosting for several senior executives from his company. The only thing I had chosen for myself was a modest box of chamomile tea.