The day of the wedding dawned brilliant and hot, the Charleston sky a deep blue bowl over the city. I dressed my children in their Sunday best—Timothy in a tiny blue blazer, Emily in a yellow dress with a ribbon in her hair, Lily in a white frock with little flowers embroidered at the hem. My own dress was simple, navy blue, dignified. I wanted to look like a woman who had nothing to prove. The church was Saint Michael’s, the historic one on Meeting Street with the tall white steeple that pierced the sky. My hands trembled as I held onto three small hands, one on each side and Lily in the middle, walking up those worn stone steps. The doors were open, and I could hear the organ playing something grand and classical. The pews were full of people in silk and linen, their heads turning as we entered. A murmur spread like wind through a field of wheat. I kept my eyes forward, my chin lifted, my heart pounding so hard I was sure everyone could hear it.